The Thought Nest

  ✨Discovering Your Love Language:✨  A Guide to Building Stronger Relationships In the quest for deep, meaningful relationships, understanding how we give and receive love can make all the difference. Often, love isn’t just a feeling; it’s an expression—one that can look different for each person. That’s where the concept of love languages comes in. Developed by Dr. Gary Chapman in his book The 5 Love Languages, the idea is simple yet profound: everyone has a unique way of expressing and experiencing love. By discovering your love language and that of your partner, friends, and family, you can enhance your relationships, resolve misunderstandings, and grow even closer. The image below were the results of what my list of love languages are. I am HUGE with quality time. I feel being around the people you love is the best. Even if I am in the same room with a loved one but we are doing different things it still makes me so happy. Acts of service was my second type of love languag...

 ✨ The Person I Look Up to the Most:✨ Charity Beadle: My Mom When I reflect on the people who have had the most profound influence on me, it always circles back to one person—my mom. It’s not just because she’s my mom, but because she embodies qualities that I strive to live by every day. From her unwavering strength to her boundless love, there are countless reasons why I look up to her more than anyone else. 1. Her Strength in Adversity One of the qualities I admire most in my mom is her incredible strength. Life has thrown its fair share of challenges her way, yet she always manages to persevere. Whether it’s personal struggles, family issues, or everyday life hurdles, she faces them with a calm determination that’s nothing short of inspiring. She’s shown me what it means to be resilient—to pick yourself up, no matter how hard life knocks you down, and keep going with grace. 2. Her Unconditional Love There’s no love like a mother’s love, and my mom’s love is the purest example o...

✨Why “Not Feeling Smart Enough” Is My Biggest Insecurity✨ There’s a voice in my head, one that tends to creep in during moments of doubt, failure, or uncertainty. It tells me that I’m not smart enough. Not enough to keep up with others. Not enough to achieve my goals. And certainly not enough to prove myself. This feeling—this insecurity—has lingered in the background of my life for as long as I can remember. It’s a subtle but constant companion that resurfaces every time I face any challenge, whether in school, work, or even in personal relationships. It’s like a shadow that follows me, even when I try to ignore it. The Comparison Trap The root of this insecurity often lies in comparison. We live in a world where intelligence seems to be measured against a very narrow set of standards. High test scores, quick wit, the ability to memorize and regurgitate information, or maybe just coming across as confident and knowledgeable in conversation. In a world like this, it’s easy to start fee...

  Dear Uncle Ben, How are you doing? How's the food in heaven? Have you made any friends? These are all kinds of questions I have stuck in my mind lately. I am still trying to grasp the concept of grief. I still can’t wrap around my head and accept that you are no longer here with us. I feel like my whole world has been shattered into a million pieces. It kills me inside knowing you will never walk through that door at a family gathering or that you will never be at holidays. You were a huge part of our family and still are. I hope up in heaven you have gotten to see and know my kids. Everyday that passes it shatters me emotionally that you never got to meet my girls. I wanted them to have the Uncle Ben that I had growing up. Seeing my Uncle Ben was always the highlight of gatherings. You made things so magical and fun for me growing up. You have made a HUGE impact on my world and you probably don’t even realize it. To this day, I remember perfectly you tricking me thinking Grand...

     ⭐Welcome to my New Blog!⭐ Hello and welcome to my very first blog post! My name is Jordan, and I’m so excited to have you here. This blog has been something I’ve been thinking about for a while now, and I’m thrilled to finally share it with you. A little about me—I’ve always had a passion for home organization, mental health, and helping others. Whether it’s exploring new daily challenges or diving deep into self-growth, I’ve found so much joy in these things and thought, “Why not share them with others?” And so, this blog was born! In this space, you can expect to find engaging posts about daily life and challenges that you may relate with. My goal is to create a space where we can learn from each other, exchange ideas, and maybe even inspire a bit of change along the way. I’ve always believed in the power of sharing stories and experiences, so I’m really looking forward to connecting with you all. Whether you’re here for advice, inspiration, or just a bit of entert...